How to Attract More Women

And how to be more successful at the dating game

Do women always pass you over in favour of your best friend? Do you often find yourself at home on a Saturday night without a date? Do you find it difficult to get beyond first base with a woman whom you are attracted to? If you have answered yes to any of these questions, you may find the advice in this article helpful.

Understanding what attracts women

If you can pinpoint what exactly it is that makes a woman say yes to one guy but no to another, then you will be one crucial step ahead of the game.

In a poll of what features they find most desirable in guy, most women revealed that they were likelier to go on a date with a man who seemed to be comfortable being himself. Girls were more likely to perceive such a man as being the genuine article and not just putting on a false front to impress them. A guy who is happy in his own shell not only stands to gain more dates but also has a higher probability of building more meaningful relationships with women.

Fine tune your body language

Signals you give out through your body language and gestures are crucial indicators which women subconsciously use to gauge if you are being yourself.

We all know the importance of maintaining steady eye contact while having a conversation, but it is a lesser known fact that what we do with our hands and posture can give non-verbal clues too. Using your hands to cover your mouth while speaking for example, could indicate that you are not being totally honest and may have something to hide. Slouching can signify that you are not really very interested in the woman or that you have a problem with your self esteem. Folding your arms can portray you as an introverted or arrogant person.

If you think that you have absolutely no problems with your body language, get a friend to tape you unawares; you will most probably be in for quite a surprise.

Don’t beat around the bush

Many men miss out on dates because they are not direct enough in showing their interest in a woman. If you want to ask a woman out, it is best done face-to-face rather than over the phone or, worse still, via Email. Getting someone to ask a girl out on your behalf is simply inexcusable; it only shows her that you lack back-bone.

So the next time you find yourself wanting to ask an attractive woman out, just go for it; don’t wait for someone else to do it before you.